Tick anything you already have, in any order. Quests unlock once this is done.
A pad and sticks is thirty pounds and teaches every rudiment a kit would. It also answers the question of whether you will actually practise, before you buy a kit.
2 things left above. Quests are real things you go and do, so they only make sense once you have what you need.
First one waiting: Hold the sticks with a matched grip