Tick anything you already have, in any order. Quests unlock once this is done.
Glass shape genuinely changes what you smell, and smell is most of taste. You do not need one per grape, six of the same shape is plenty.
2 things left above. Quests are real things you go and do, so they only make sense once you have what you need.
First one waiting: Taste a wine properly and write three words for it